No One Sits Solo®
Thumbs Up was recently featured on KSTP-TV, Minnesota Live and in the Elk River Star Newspaper.
What is the No One Sits Solo® Program?
Since the beginning of the pandemic, there has been a rapid increase in the number of people suffering from mental health problems. With a healthcare system already overburdened and seemingly unable to deal with the rise in mental health issues, America is facing what is being called a mental health crisis. Therefore, a significant area of focus for Thumbs Up continues to be one-on-one interaction, building community, and offering alternatives to mental health care through daily interactions and positive mindset strategies and interactions.
The No One Sits Solo® Program addresses one of the common social isolation concerns inside middle and high school lunchrooms across America. Students did not have a friend or companion to sit in the lunch room. We hope that through the six-minute video, worksheets, and promotional materials, we can help boost morale inside your school and lessen the amount of social isolation in the lunchroom and other areas of the school. In addition, the curriculum gives teachers tools to have meaningful conversations with their students about mental health. We partnered with the Power of P.A.T.H. to create a six-lesson curriculum to be delivered by a teacher within grades 6-12. The curriculum integrates concise teacher instructions with student handouts, YouTube and short Impact videos, peer empathy-building activities, projects, and student surveys.
What is included with the No One Sits Solo® Program?
- Free six-minute video promoting the Joe Mauer & Mike Hally Story
- Free Digital Reflection Activity for students (or Google Docs)
- Available for purchase:
No One Sits Solo® – The Story of Joe Mauer & Mike Hally
“When Joe Mauer, six-time All Star for the Minnesota Twins and 2009 American League Most Valuable Player (MVP), was going to Cretin-Derham Hall High School in St. Paul, Minnesota, in the late 1990’s, he was the big man on Campus.”
(Schmit, Joe. (2014). Silent Impact. Wise Ink, Inc.. https://joeschmit.com/)
“Joe Mauer was one of the most talented high school athletes in Minnesota history. He was offered a full-ride scholarship to play quarterback at Florida State, he was an All-State guard in basketball, and he was the best high school baseball player in the country. Drafted by the Minnesota Twins in 2011, Joe Mauer is the only catcher in MLB history to win three batting titles.”
(Silent Impact, page 7)
In Joe’s senior year at Cretin-Derham Hall High School, Joe decided to invite one of his classmates to sit at his lunch table. That classmate, Mike Hally, just happened to be blind. Joe would walk Mike to the lunchroom, through the lunch line, and also help wipe crumbs off of his face. Mike became “one of the guys” at the cool table. Joe Mauer’s friends also began taking turns walking him through the lunch line and to his next class.
“Mike was a kid who could have been ignored or shunned because of his disability, but Joe made him one of the cool kids. Imagine the impact it had on Joe’s friends and other students at the high school. The ripple effect of Joe’s actions in high school is even more impactful now, given his rise to athletic fame. We make our biggest impressions when we are not trying to be impressive.”
(Silent Impact, page 8)
Now, over a decade later, the impact of Joe Mauer inviting Mike Hally to his lunch room table is still being felt today. “The act broke down barriers. It gave me the confidence to meet other people. Joe taking me to lunch was a sign to all the other athletes that it was okay to be my friend.” Mike recalled. (Silent Impact, page 9)
In the words of Joe Schmit, “Bullies are forgotten. Kindness can become legendary. You never know when someone at your school needs you to acknowledge them and say hi to them. When in doubt, do the right thing.”
The No One Sits Solo Grant was funded in part by the Sherburne County Area United Way and the Three Rivers Community Foundation.
For inquiries or to learn more about the grant, please visit email info@thumbsupformentalhealth.org